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Be the Woman You Want Your Son to Marry

Social Talk-with UNCLE PAPINA


They say the brain is divided into sectors, each playing its own role in shaping our perceptions and behaviors. Now, I’m no psychologist, but like anyone else, I have my own insights about how we think.


One thing I’ve noticed. Women have a more active “shopping center” in their brains than men. Ever wonder why your girlfriend or wife can spend an hour browsing the market without buying a thing? It’s not indecision—it’s instinct. It’s part of what makes her. Accept it. Embrace it.




Now, men, don’t think you’re off the hook. We have our quirks too, and one of them is what I like to call the “appreciation center.” We men can’t help but admire beauty—especially in women. This, my friends, is where we shine. It’s why we sometimes get distracted by that stunning smile or those mesmerizing eyes. Let’s be honest: there’s something irresistible about a woman who carries herself with confidence and grace.


Ladies, let this be your reminder: Be the woman your man can’t stop appreciating. But more importantly, be the woman you’d want your son to marry.


Being a man has taught me one undeniable truth: It’s almost impossible to let a beautiful woman pass by unnoticed. We’re wired to admire, to appreciate, to notice. And guess what? There’s nothing wrong with that. But here’s the twist—just as bees are drawn to fresh flowers, men are drawn to women who take care of themselves, who exude freshness and vitality. It’s nature, pure and simple.


And men? We’re like gardeners. We may admire all sorts of flowers, but the one that truly matters is the one in our garden—the one we choose to nurture and grow.


In this age of fashion and fame, some women believe that showing more skin is the key to attraction. Let’s be real: men might enjoy the sight, but that’s often where it ends. You see, all the most precious things in life are hidden—diamonds, pearls, and even gold. It takes a man of value, purpose, and vision to uncover these treasures. Your body is far more precious than any gem. Why reveal something so valuable to just anyone?


Unless, of course, you believe your body is as common as coal—accessible to anyone with eyes. But if you want to be valued, treated like the rare gem you are, then dress the part. Confidence doesn’t come from showing everything; it comes from knowing your worth.

Remember, a man worthy of you is looking for a woman who knows her own value. Be the woman you would want your son to marry—a woman of dignity, class, and substance.

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